If I get banned for this…I definitely deserve it.
Sorry…it’s not your fault I want bad things to happen to me

  • Azura The Spellkissed@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    10 days ago

    Well go have fun, we don’t need to kink shame. It does feel odd to have a degrading post here, but thank you for putting up content warnings 💜

    As a sincere suggestion: When you’re not horny, it’s probably smart to consider whether you want to contain this kink to the realm of fantasies only, before finding yourself in a situation irl.

    • Miisha ♀️@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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      10 days ago

      It does feel odd to have a degrading post here…

      You’re right…this post was probably a mistake. I’ll probably delete it in a bit. There’s no benefit to having it here, in a safe and friendly community like this. It just ruins the mood. I’m sorry…

      As for your suggestion…
      Thank you, but this is a deeper problem than just a simple kink. I’ve talked about it here, with my bf and with my therapist, I don’t really want to bring it up again. They’re the worst kind of intrusive thoughts.

      Sorry…I’ll delete it

      • QuinnyCoded@sh.itjust.works
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        3 days ago

        nah girl you’re good :)

        I’ve posted similar, albeit non sexual, degrading posts here before. It might be worth asking a mod though if you want to be sure. They’ve always been helpful and nice in the past with me 🙂‍↕️

        as a trade I’ll give you a meme that I didn’t post because I thought it was too much for the sub at the time hehe