If I get banned for this…I definitely deserve it.
Sorry…it’s not your fault I want bad things to happen to me

  • Sibbo@sopuli.xyzEnglish
    10·
    9 days ago

    Wanting bad things to happen to oneself can be a sign of emotional distress or some other underlying issue. Take care of yourself if needed!

      • Lily@lemmy.zipEnglish
        6·
        9 days ago

        Oh… I get it girl. Whenever I get bad mood. I do self depreciation, and wish to be harmed (and sadly more…) saddly. B

        Take care, don’t give in.

        • Miisha ♀️@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPEnglish
          3·
          9 days ago

          Whenever I get bad mood. I do self depreciation, and wish to be harmed (and sadly more…)

          Yeah, same 😢
          I even made a (now deleted) post on the OffMyChest community, talking about this exactly, my darkest thoughts…I’m glad it’s gone tho, it was way too messed up.

          I’m not giving in, dw!
          Thank you girlie 🩷

      • Azura The Spellkissed@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
        6·
        9 days ago

        Well go have fun, we don’t need to kink shame. It does feel odd to have a degrading post here, but thank you for putting up content warnings 💜

        As a sincere suggestion: When you’re not horny, it’s probably smart to consider whether you want to contain this kink to the realm of fantasies only, before finding yourself in a situation irl.

        • Miisha ♀️@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPEnglish
          2·
          9 days ago

          It does feel odd to have a degrading post here…

          You’re right…this post was probably a mistake. I’ll probably delete it in a bit. There’s no benefit to having it here, in a safe and friendly community like this. It just ruins the mood. I’m sorry…

          As for your suggestion…
          Thank you, but this is a deeper problem than just a simple kink. I’ve talked about it here, with my bf and with my therapist, I don’t really want to bring it up again. They’re the worst kind of intrusive thoughts.

          Sorry…I’ll delete it

          • QuinnyCoded@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
            2·
            2 days ago

            nah girl you’re good :)

            I’ve posted similar, albeit non sexual, degrading posts here before. It might be worth asking a mod though if you want to be sure. They’ve always been helpful and nice in the past with me 🙂‍↕️

            as a trade I’ll give you a meme that I didn’t post because I thought it was too much for the sub at the time hehe