There really must be a way to make things more equal without pressuring people so hard into gender roles. I for my part as a man have realized how much patriarchy made me suffer - i am not made for being reduced to “stoic,angry,horny” at all, and i also do not want to have all responsibility providing for a family in a financial sense, because i can’t cope with that, and also even if i could cope, it would disenfranchise my partner.