This is something that starts to emerge from those “egg” meme communities. “Egg” is slang for a trans person who doesn’t know it yet, and there are little pockets on the internet that share egg memes. Over time the memes and discussion can start getting kind of… pushy/aggressive? Not exactly the word I’m looking for, but I hope it gets the point across.

Basically it’s the same thing you’re talking about. As memes do, they oversimplify until everyone is an egg. Which isn’t exactly a bad thing, but also are we not dictating everyone’s destination before they even start their journey?