I know some people really identify with their gender, but to me I think the biggest sign I’m male is that I don’t really think about my gender and deep down feel it’s silly to fixate on such a social construct.
Anyway I’ve learned a lot since then, and get why gender is important to people especially if they’re at odds with the one assigned. But for a while there I just assumed everyone must secretly want to abolish gender.
That’s pretty much where I’m at. I’m agnostic on the whole gender thing. I just don’t talk to people about it and try to respect whatever they’re doing as long as they’re not hurting me (which has never happened).
I know some people really identify with their gender, but to me I think the biggest sign I’m male is that I don’t really think about my gender and deep down feel it’s silly to fixate on such a social construct.
Anyway I’ve learned a lot since then, and get why gender is important to people especially if they’re at odds with the one assigned. But for a while there I just assumed everyone must secretly want to abolish gender.
That’s pretty much where I’m at. I’m agnostic on the whole gender thing. I just don’t talk to people about it and try to respect whatever they’re doing as long as they’re not hurting me (which has never happened).