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            • idiomaddict@lemmy.world
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              10 hours ago

              When I’m looking up porn, I’m fully uninterested in 90% of what comes up for cuckholding, so having a separate term is helpful.

              • ToTheGraveMyLove@sh.itjust.works
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                10 hours ago

                I don’t approve of separate gendered words to convey the exact same concept, that’s just silly, but I can see how it would be useful when looking up porn

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                  It’s very useful for porn, but it’s also a different thing culturally. Cuckholding involves playing on people’s internalized toxic masculinity and often has really weird racial overtones or implications that a woman in a hetero partnership is property of the man.

                  Cuckqueaning involves playing on people’s internalized beauty standards and doesn’t really have the raceplay aspect.

                  It’s not like actor and actress, where it’s the same exact thing except for the gender.

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                    10 hours ago

                    Does cuckhold porn ever take on those cuckquean traits, and vice versa? To me it just comes across as subgenres stemming from the same basic concept. Also, how does cuckqueaning play on beauty standards? I’m not following that description.