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    8 days ago

    I had a customer tell me once that he could always recognize me from behind because I’m so skinny. I didn’t have a comeback, because what the fuck, but I told him that was something I didn’t want to hear from him and then he got all offended. He told me it was rude, so I told him next time he could recognize which barista was rude.

    I will grant him this though, he did recognize me from behind at a different store, a couple towns over from my regular one. He recognized that he should wait for the other barista.







  • The weirdest part is how as soon as I decided to give up and wear comfy, ugly (to me) clothes, they came back in style. I straight up started wearing my dad’s old clothes (I’m afab, maybe an egg, but I definitely read as a woman to others) and long socks (in the cooler months- part of getting older for me is that things start to ache when they get cold), which I felt a little insecure about. Then somehow shortly thereafter the kids in my college town started doing it too. I’m glad younger women don’t feel like they have to wear all the uncomfortable stuff I did though, it’s just a little surprising.