She looks a lot like my stepmom

No, no, Trojans would have helped prevent the STIs

It’s like nicknames. First it’s Joseph, then Joe, then Napoleon Jonaparte.

I’ve been a server at multiple types of establishment in multiple countries. The only time anyone ever fucked with someone’s food/drink, it was because the customer had jumped one of the servers in the restaurant the week before and beaten the shit out of them.

Then I probably wouldn’t go, but I don’t go and not tip because the menu is expensive.

Sounds lovely.

They still put the effort in. If it’s sloppy or poorly made and the bars not busy, I don’t get another one.

Plus, I’ll tip $1-2 for a fancy cocktail even if the service is crappy, because those take time to make, so I don’t really need to know what the service is like ahead of time unless it’s incredible. This sounds like it wasn’t though.

I’m aware. I’m a vegan because I’m not down for animal rape. The bestiality laws are written with exceptions for people who are acting, not out of their own sexual interest, but out of financial interest.

I wanted to have a slightly different discussion, because this one’s depressing as shit though.

Yes, though I would caution you about that level of reductiveness. I know men into Cuckholding and women into cuckqueaning and they’ve got relatively little in common personality-wise. They’re both founded on insecurity, but a kink for nuns and a kink for feet are both founded on a longing for the forbidden and they’re not the same.

Edit: do femme and masc hit you better than women and men?

It may, I’m not an expert, just an enthusiastic amateur. I don’t think it would really work very well, but porn isn’t exactly known for its continuity.

The insecurity at play under Cuckholding is that you’re not man enough, and under cuckqueaning it’s that you’re not attractive enough (roughly).

In real life, I wish I had to deal less with the side effects of being considered attractive (I’m normal looking, but that’s all that’s needed for creepy comments and more all over the place), so I enjoy playing off of that during sex.

It’s very useful for porn, but it’s also a different thing culturally. Cuckholding involves playing on people’s internalized toxic masculinity and often has really weird racial overtones or implications that a woman in a hetero partnership is property of the man.

Cuckqueaning involves playing on people’s internalized beauty standards and doesn’t really have the raceplay aspect.

It’s not like actor and actress, where it’s the same exact thing except for the gender.

When I’m looking up porn, I’m fully uninterested in 90% of what comes up for cuckholding, so having a separate term is helpful.

I don’t think I have the moderating skills, lol.

Cuckholding is for men, cuckqueaning is for women.

I am actually into cuckqueaning!

And again, I’m not ashamed of myself.

Whatever evasion someone might suggest feels chickenshit to me.

Well, it’s a college application, so of course it’s a question they ask. They also asked about my grades.

I’m not doing myself a disservice by being honest about my actions. To cover them up for my own gain is cowardly and makes the world a worse place, in my opinion.

Of course they asked about suspensions and expulsions, I wasn’t just writing in “and then one time, I stole candy from the store…”

But no, I don’t really care about presenting a specific face to a specific audience. I engage in appropriate security around any information that isn’t mine to share or that could endanger a friend, but if I’m going to lose out on a school for being a supportive friend, I don’t want to go to that school.

I guess there was a benefit in identifying that that school was going to be full of people who do want to lie about their behavior for their own gain, which I’m not interested in.

There’s not zero advantage to honesty, my friend.