I muted my own post on yptb with piefed, that’s the closest feature to disengage. For me, the disengage for me applied to yptb. There is not this kind of rules here. Sorry, maybe i didn’t read properly and i apologize to you.

i didn’t want to stay on yptb and answer : why this, why that, no he didn’t do that, yes he did this, yes you are right, no you are wrong…and it continu again, again, again, again…And you may screenshot me than put me on yptb. Would you be sastified with it ?

Both side were wrong. And every week, we will have a new post on it. I’m not Rimu, i don’t work for him. Yes, he handled very badly and took actions that i would never chose.

And why i’m writting to you ? My purpose is ending this fedidrama.

You are so invested, you replyied in so many comments in my community c/fediverse. You are very furious and you are right. I also know that you downvoted every comment from me, was it worth ?
Is Rimu worth your time ? Do you really want to engage a discussion with Rimu ? Wouldn’t you fell better if you moved on another topic ?

Just let it go, i kwon that’s not easy. It’s very difficult to let it go because it is unfair. That’s the hardest part.

But i have a story to share and it happened for the first time in my life on the fediverse. I never had such draining a. I also went through a big argument like this one. It was lousy, sour and i was a mod.

The best thing happenned for us and our users on jlai.lu : we never saw each other. We blocked each other and that’s how we succeded in creating a space where everyone can enjoy their time there. Yes it is different from a ban but it is also the same.

My sole purpose here is ending this fedidrama that lastest since last April. Then later, we will work on a closure so we can close wound and heal.

Edit : typo + sentences