• rockerface🇺🇦@lemmy.cafe
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    3 months ago

    This is obviously fake and gay™, but PSA: if something similar happens to you IRL, it’s not therapy being useless, it’s therapist being an asshole and genuinely harmful to their patients.

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      3 months ago

      The problem is you don’t know if your therapist might be an asshole before speaking to them.

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        3 months ago

        You just look for a new one then right? I dunno how it works in other places around the world but we don’t have to sign up for an annual contract or anything here in Japan.

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          3 months ago

          Generally speaking people who need mental health help are going to be more easily discouraged by a negative interaction than the general population even if they can afford therapy in the first place. In the US at least there’s also a shortage of therapists, meaning you might have to wait a long time to see anyone at all. And in my experience there are a lot more bad therapists than good ones (though assholes of this level are probably rare).

          Honestly if it were me I’d just save myself the trouble, read a book on CBT and get some antidepressants. But that doesn’t work for everyone.

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    3 months ago

    be me, formerly professional-level troll on WoW forums

    my golden days are long gone, sadly

    lightbulb.wav

    what if I used all my experience and mastery to earn a living?

    gonna open a therapist office

    MFW I’m the worst therapist in the world and morons come and pay me to ask them why they are still virgins at 28

    they always go home sobbing

    [Insert some pepe]

  • ChonkyOwlbear@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    Therapists with specialties seem to dislike it when their client doesn’t fall under that umbrella. I had a therapist whose specialty was child sexual abuse. I told her I didn’t experience any and she defensively snapped “Are you sure? Maybe you don’t remember it!”. I did not stick with her for long.