Got banned on lemmygrad because of relationship advise. Basically my relationship advice didn’t match the moderator’s and a couple people’s stance. That’s ridiculous. Therefore, I’m looking for a good instance without sectarianism, circlejerk and mods that abuse their power.

  • hodja_nasreddin@lemmy.worldOP
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    8 months ago

    Why are you lying, bro?

    Looks to me like you got (temp) banned for posting apparent incel comments

    Not temporary. “Incel comments”? What is is, exactly? Who are you to saying that? Some sorts an expert on incels? Or am I not allowed to have an opinion different from the crowd, or else I’m an incel? All I said was that if a guy still has feelings for this girl, he should move on. Not trying to “play her friend” and torture himself emotionally (because he won’t be able to pretend it didn’t happen and communicate like he used to. All the comments in that thread were very idealistic, obviously written by people with no such experience. I wrote a realistic comment and got banned.) There’s nothing hateful or incel or in any way rule-breaking here. It’s more like you left comments reminiscent of incel “nice guys” on social media.

    in a hateful way.

    And what was hateful about my comment specifically?

    and reducing well-received advice to a “lib salad”

    Because it’s wasn’t “well-received” at all. You were literally trying to gaslight a man into a friendzone. And not to mention, you reducing my advise to “incel comment” as well.

    I hope you reflect on the ban and the comments replied to you.

    I was just reflecting that lemmygrad, is a circlejerk full of hypocritical people who ban their comrades for the slightest deviation from their beliefs. For those who call themselves leftists, they are as closed minded as possible.

    The world needs fewer, not more hateful incels or “alpha males.”

    What’s that got to do with me? Stop projecting yourself onto others.

    • s38b35M5@lemmy.world
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      8 months ago

      Not temporary.

      Looks temporary to me:

      No interest in engaging with you further. Good luck, comrade.

      • hodja_nasreddin@lemmy.worldOP
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        8 months ago

        It didn’t show up on my screen. Either way, I’m not going back to a place that doesn’t allow even a semblance of normal discussion without labelling someone.