Got banned on lemmygrad because of relationship advise. Basically my relationship advice didn’t match the moderator’s and a couple people’s stance. That’s ridiculous. Therefore, I’m looking for a good instance without sectarianism, circlejerk and mods that abuse their power.
Human bias is a pervasive element in many online communities, and finding a platform entirely free from it can be akin to searching for the holy grail. Maybe look into self-hosting an instance and punish moderators who don’t follow their own rules.